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Ed West's avatar

I've thought a lot about the Simpsons political voting, mainly because I wonder whether it could be made today or if these archetypes cause too much partisan dislike.

Lisa would obviously grow up to be a pretty woke Democrat, with a humanities degree of some sort, Bart would presumably be in a semi-skilled profession and vote Republican. Anecdotally I've heard of many American families where a pro-Trump and highly educated Democrat sister have fallen out.

Marge would vote Republican but her two sisters Democrat, as there is a huge partisan difference of 25 points between single and married women.

Smithers would vote Democrat but if he lived in Europe it's not inconceivable he'd vote for the AfD or Le Pen.

Denise Taylor's avatar

This resonated with me. I’m not an anthropologist either, but when I lived with a Maasai tribe I saw something that complicates the familiar “male provider” story in a similar way.

I spent my time almost entirely with the women, cooking, cleaning, repairing huts, milking, fetching water, washing clothes, keeping daily life going. The men largely stood around talking, while the children were the ones actually out with the animals. Food, water, shelter, continuity, all of that rested with the women’s labour.

What struck me was that male status didn’t seem to come from provisioning so much as from visibility, presence, and social standing. Having multiple wives increased a man’s status, but it also meant more women doing the work. He moved between households, while the infrastructure of life was quietly sustained without him.

So Miller’s idea that certain male behaviours function less as practical provisioning and more as signalling doesn’t feel abstract to me. Seeing how much of survival and continuity was handled by women, while men occupied a more performative social role, made me question how deeply ingrained our assumptions about “who provides” really are.

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